Isn’t it lovely when someone shows you warmth ! Its just got to be one of the most giving, confidence building and engaging things you can do for someone. Simply giving a warm, genuine friendly greeting – even if it is in passing on the run, is so kind ! I have been on the receiving end of this, and then on the receiving end of a not so warm acknowledgement and the latter can make you extremely uncomfortable and even for a confident person - a bit paranoid !
The women I observe consistently emitting warmth - attract people like bees to a honey pot – as others simply feel so secure in their presence – being around them is a “happy place” – what a gift they give others – especially the more vulnerable and insecure in our circles. I just so admire & appreciate these women who have a hugely positive impact moment to moment on their social network PLUS I also see how well it serves them.
I can think of two women in my closer circle of friends that are constantly & genuinely programmed this way and wonder what forces in their lives have shaped them to be this way and what forces have shaped others that aren’t. Anyways, it’s a behaviour I aspire to and love them dearly for, hopefully just noting this will raise my level of consciousness about this trait and ensure I practice it more often – why wouldn’t you !! Can you think of people in your own circles that are so giving in this way and see the positive impact it has on you and the more “vulnerable” others around them ?
xoxo
